15 years ago ...
TONIGHT! Was my first date with NATE! WOW! We were chatting downstairs as I put together someone's album (they'll be so happy!) and I realized the date! I said "Nate - do you KNOW what today is???" He's like "crap - what did I forget?" I said "It was our FIRST DATE!" We both had to count backwards and figure out how many years ago it was.
But I remembered it all VERY clearly! As I went on and on about the details (imagine Alice in her fast talking voice all you cullen lovers!) I got more and more giddy! Then I SHOT up and said "I'm going to BLOG about you!" ohhhhhhh you should've seen his face. He made the worst scrunched up face and said "nooo - please do NOT go blog about it.". So I pretended to do something else -and snuck upstairs to go find pictures. SADLY I don't know where they are. Maybe at my parents home. So as I looked through what I DID have - I got all "reminiscent" of my life and ended up scanning things that took back in time. If you don't want to hear me mumble on - then click off now - because it's going to get detailed. :)
Back in 1993 I was SEVENTEEN (ohhhh 17 .. that's SUCH an amazing age - isn't it?? I wonder why? ec.). Nate was 18. He had just graduated high school and was in college. Although taking a business class and a volleyball class doesn't REALLY constitute higher education. He agreed - and the business class was dropped. Our sisters knew each other - and he received my phone number. To which I was HIGHLY aware of. Weeks went by. Jerk. He didn't call me. So ONE NIGHT - my sister was at my home and she CALLED him from my home (before caller ID - GENIUS!) and said "Nate - you haven't called my sister (jerk!) - and I know she's home. Why don't you call her and ask her out?"
20 minutes later he called - I was giddy! Giddy with GLEE. Had NO idea what he looked like - but I was sure he was HOT! We scheduled something for that weekend - to which I cancelled 2 days later because I went out with Greg Stewart. :) Wanted to play hard to get with Nate. We scheduled for the following week.
We doubled with his friend Paul - and my friend CHERIDAN! Hi Cheridan! We went to Olive Garden, Legacy (remember that movie???) and a HAUNTED HOUSE. freeeeeeeeeaaaaaaky! He picked me up in his GIRBAUD jeans - totally hot! And this plaid shirt that I loved so much! His smile was sooo .. oo I'm totally giddy writting this ... great!
During the movie I got a little "teary" (I know WEIRD for me!!) and I remember he leaned over and while holding out the edge of his cute plaid shirt he said "Do you need this?" with the MOST dashing smile. Totally knocked me out and I was twitterpated! Then during the haunted house the evil chain saw guy (who ALWAYS looks for people on their first date) cornered Cheridan and me. And I remember Nate reaching in to "get" me. ohh wow - this is even better WRITING IT! I love it!
That night I was hooked. I loved everything about him! 6 weeks later he told me he loved me. And even though I was young - I knew I could not live with out him. I knew that if I had traveled the world and seen everyone there was to see - I would still come back to find someone like him. And that's how I still feel.
So - 15 years later - we've been married for ... ooo how many years - let me count ... hold on...
Just a second - still counting ...
TWELVE years!
Awwwww he just walked up the stairs with a surprise for me. A bowl of pudding. He knows I love it. He caught site of what I was writing and said "oh great - they think I'm a drop out!" So in his defense - although he DID drop that "all important" business class - he then attended 8 more years of college. :)
I love him. I love his intensity for life. For our family. For me. If I had spent my life differently in my early 20's, traveling the world, going to school in Paris, etc. etc. - I STILL would've come back to find someone like him. To find HIM. Because HE is who I love!
(Thank you Amy for our picture that I LOVE!)
And now - some reminiscing. This is ME when I was 17. 2 weeks before meeting Nate.
Jamie Johnson, Kristin Hess, Jason Francis (the driver!) and me. Homecoming Royalty. 1 week before Nate. ;)
And the night he PROPOSED - March 31, 1996. Look at our HAIR! And that's my brother, Chris - with Heidi - he dated her a bit back then. Hi Heidi. :) Ohhh - and my dog, Pugsley. Nice plethera (brandy's word!) of light faded jeans. Thank you gap. They must've been on sale.
And some random tea party with my dad and brother. Nice. See - fluffy head DOES look just like me!
And just in case you were worried that YOUR family photo was outdated ... take a lookie here.
Can you find me? Keep looking - I know that shag carpet is getting quite high. Time for a mowing.
Off to let Oscar outside to go POTTY. Can I just put a diaper on him?? :) Off to chat with Nate some more - reminisce. See if he can remember as many details ...